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Vows and rituals not written in stone, unless we decide they are

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5:49 pm
June 11, 2010


RevJohn

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Post edited 11:50 pm – June 11, 2010 by RevJohn


I've been having an ongoing discussion with the members of the Deist Alliance, and some of them have taken issue with the vows I require for ordination. I explained that I did it so that the Church doesn't become some kind of cult, among other reasons, and you may see the dialogue here –

http://www.positivedeism.com/phpbb2/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=4520

I started this thread because I'd like to hear input from existing and prospective members regarding the things mentioned in the other forum. Should the vows be “mandatory”, or just some suggestions?  Is there anything you think should be a vow and isn't?  I'm open to suggestions/criticisms/areas of agreement, etc.

2:41 pm
June 14, 2010


philflaherty

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With utmost respect for you efforts in establishing this forum, I would tend to disagree with the concept of "vows". What you have laid out appears to be a promise to be a good person, a guide to conduct. That in and of itself is a worthwhile  undertaking, and such was the origin of the 10 commandments (a simplified version of the Hammurabi Code as I indicated in a previous post) or a code for social conduct. Unfortunately, over time these codes of conduct morphed into the basis of several "Religions" with increasing complexities and associated penalties. While deism is classified as a "religion", I believe it is more an intellectual persuit, and to impose "vows" risks putting it into a box, the slippery slope toward "Religion". As far as ritual goes, I think the high five is a bit contrived and not very useful. Your other "ritual", the daily promise to one's self to be a good person is somewhat superfluous to the "vows". I would instead consider that promise not a "ritual", but rather step one in the littany of self promises you have suggested as "vows". We all have our own personal rituals, the order in which we do things in order to maintain some consitency and sanity in our lives, and I do belief our personal rituals need to remain just that, personal rituals, which may, according to circumstance, morph over time. Again, I enjoy the intellectual execise the various deist forums facilitate, and thank you for hosting this one. I look forward to more thought provoking, discussions. May our disagreements always be courteous and kind.

-Bro. Phil 

8:56 pm
June 15, 2010


RevJohn

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The people have spoken here and elsewhere, and I have removed all references to any rituals, besides our own discussions of them.  Most folks don't like the vows and I can certainly understand that, but I hope folks understand why I put them in place.  I was trying to ensure that the Church didn't go down the road of organized religion, but I guess I went about it the wrong way.

So, I think it's pretty clear that the vows shouldn't be mandatory but should they be here at all, even as guidelines or suggestions?  I put them in place to show what we stand for and to make sure somebody didn't turn the Church into some kind of cult.  They hit a little too close to organized religion from what most folks are saying, and that makes sense to me, so is there anything else we can do to make sure that some guy out there doesn't get ordained and start his own cult of personality?  Am I being paranoid, I mean, history is full of these people.  There are plenty more references to the vows than there were to the rituals, so I want to make sure we get this right before I go changing a large part of the site.  Maybe we could just agree to the principle of Thomas Paine's "God exists, and there it lies", without making some kind of promise.  Please let me know where you stand on this, either here or on Positive Deism.

2:08 am
June 23, 2010


RevJohn

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Post edited 8:14 pm – June 29, 2010 by RevJohn


Update:

All references to vows have been removed as well as the rituals.  Having vows seems to tread too closely to organized religion for most people's comfort, so they are no longer required.

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